So my boyfriend is a switch and I am in some degree? but he wants me to domme him fully for the first time and it’s causing me to be extremely nervous because I’m not a dominant person in both my sexual and non sexual life. I’m finding it hard to really put myself in that mindset? He’s super understanding and doesn’t want me to do anything I don’t want to but I do want to make him happy. Any advice? I’ve tried in the past and I end up laughing because I can’t take myself serious as I feel like I’m trying too hard? The most I’ve really gotten is tying him up and being on top but the second I vocalize anything dominant or authoritarian that’s when I crumble. Sorry for ranting! I just want to know if there’s any advice on how to be more dominant or any advice on this situation in general! I appreciate it!! Thanks guys :)
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