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Hi all. I’ve spoken to a few doms recently, and most shy away from being any kind of being a dom outside of the bedroom, when I try explain what I mean by full control, I mean…full control. I sometimes feel deflated like it’s too much responsibility for them to have, and I’m not sure if it’s not finding the right person, or it’s a case of Im asking too much? I make it sound like I don’t have a brain, and that’s not the case, I just want a full time dominant, diet, bedroom, bedtime, finance, (obviously I’d still be working) Im just struggling to find like-minded people, and again, am i searching in the wrong places? Whenever I try discuss this with people, they always turn it into an only bedroom discussion, and thats not what I’m looking for. I love rules, I love following them, but we don’t just have to limit to sexual right??
Please put my mind at ease that Im normal! 😂
People not being comfortable with that level of control with someone they haven't vetted or built a relationship with is absolutely sensible.
Why do you want someone to be completely responsible for your life?
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That's a fantastic way to be taken advantage of.