Heya!

I've (22, they/he) recently been thinking about pursuing an online kink/sexting dynamic via dating apps/social media. Im really into domming over text, giving people tasks, and receiving/sharing nsfw content. I want this relationship to be largely centred on the Dom/sub dynamic and for us to mutually get off too it, but also for us to be able to chat and have sfw convos!

Obviously I want to communicate this to the potential sub in a clear and structured manner and to ensure that we are both on the same page. I dont want the sub to just feel "used" by me to get off - I still want them to still feel in control and cared for :) I'm also not particularly interested in engaging in this IRL and want to make sure that's ok with them.

So any advice on building a relationship like this and ensuring its maintained in a healthy manner?

Thanks in advance! <3