I (M) am a 24/7 Dom in a pretty extreme TPE. I am typically the top and the sadist, but not exclusively. I bottom sometimes and am hurt sometimes, but always at my discretion.

Recently, however, my sub and I have been discussing a scene in which he would tie me up and, in almost a brat-tamer sort of way, try to force me to submit. However, the notable difference is that I would do no such thing. In fact, I'd be extremely and aggressively angry about the whole situation. If he attempted to kiss me, I would spit in his face. I'd be verbally insulting him the whole time. And then, at some point, I would escape my bonds and turn the tables, getting back at him for humiliating me like that. It feels like winning, and I like that very much.

I want this because the idea of being forced to submit makes me intensely angry, and I want to be provoked like that because retaliation feels so much more delicious than unprovoked sadism. He wants this because he loves seeing me angry, and because he loves to lose to me. And, though it's not conscious, I'm sure there's also the element of taboo due to temporarily reversing our usual roles.

To my understanding, "brat" is a type of submissive, and the goal of bratting is to be put in one's place. The goal here is the polar opposite. I want to play with humiliation, be an absolute raging asshole about it, and then take my well-earned revenge. Furthermore, to my understanding, "brat-tamer" is a type of dominant. But he doesn't want to be dominant, he wants to act dominant: he doesn't want submission in return.

Has anyone else experimented with this? Does it have a name? Any thoughts/input is appreciated.