I've realised after getting into a argument w my friend how it's a similar pattern w straight men I talk to. If I don't find a joke funny I'm called "sensitive" I got told if I'm ok and said yeah why. Then proceeded to say how shitty I look🙂 then says some ppl like self depreciation it's funny. Then tried to explain how it can be offensive and be careful what you can to ppl can upset them. He gets annoyed at me for not liking the joke and says I'm sensitive and pouts and goes to bed. Or if I start sounding to feminist they get annoyed and start defending men rights as if I bashed them? Or get told men have it harder😒. A guy I was friends w said a world war is what I'm more worried about them some reproductive rights you guys can vote and do a lot more then we can.