This is NOT a judgement post of what is the “right” amount or the “wrong” amount, but simply the dynamics of youre relationship.

Obviously sex frequency fluctuates… but I’m curious about how much sex you’re having and how you feel about it.

Would you like more? Less? Are you satisfied?

I’ve seen people in relationships that are very satisfied with their 1x per week and other people that consider this “dead”.

There seems to be a huge discrepancy there (although yes, personal preference) but if I had to guess then I would say it’s not the frequency, but how people feel about the relationship in general.

If you’re having less sex than you want… what do you think the contributing factors are?

Does anyone feel they are having too much? What are the other areas that are lacking?