so my fiancée loves to have sex all the time it's how he shows his love he said but for me I love to cuddle I like to have sex but not all the time especially back to back, I did try to give him that and my vagina was so sore and red and my clit was sore everything that touch it felt like a sharp pain and told him that but he gets upset about that. Other thing too he wants to "spark up the sex" like how it was when we were in high school we would have sex in public because well where else could you go as a teen and I told him I was not comfortable because we would sometimes get caught by the cops and I'm not trying to deal with a cop who feels like fuck it I'm gonna register them as a sex offender, do you know how hard it is to get a job when you have to let jobs know that let alone buying a house or apartment where there is a school near by and you have to go around and tell people. In all seriousness I enjoy what we do like having sex in our apartment, we usually stay in the room since we have roommates but occasionally I'll give him a bj in the living room but he won't let me completely because he doesn't want the male roommates to see.