My 30 y/o sister has had 2 major relationships in her life. One was a physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive relationship for 8 years. When they broke up she was devastated and found herself in a relationship with the current guy.

He is verbally, emotionally, and financially abusive- I haven’t been able to prove physical yet. They’ve been together for 7-8 years, and only about 2 years ago- maybe are dating? He lives with her, they have toddlers, and he told her he’d leave her if she didn’t put him on the deed to her house. She did. She makes ~$15 an hour, and he has her pay all the bills and he keeps all his money to himself.

He is currently trying to convince her to quit her job and be a stay at home mom and he’ll pay for everything. I recognize that she would have to ask him for everything once this happens, and the control will get worse.

My sister and I have gotten closer over the years, but we aren’t close enough to have her listen to me or let me help her.

I want to help her, but can’t.. and know she’s getting herself more and more into issues with him. I don’t know how I can and really am just seeking advice on how I can navigate this situation to help her realize she’s in an abusive relationship