If looking for man, they’re everywhere . If looking for a woman either paying for it or having a top tier amazing profile and putting in a lot of time and energy. Your profile has no posted pics that are watermarked , no verification and hardly any karma - three huge red flags for any real woman that would consider chatting a strange guy on here . If you want it easy, you pay. If you want it free you have to spend a lot of time and a lot of effort on a profile and getting to know people by commenting in likeminded subs and getting to know them .

Truthful answer that no one likes to hear is you’re either going to find a man pretending to be a woman or you’ll have to pay

Women aren’t coming online to get random men off for free . The tiny percent who may consider it are going to be choosing the most detailed profiles with the most amount of effort out of the literally hundreds of messages they get

Have a great detailed profile with a lot of time and effort put both into the profile and the conversations in comments that would warrant someone seeing that profile or comments and consider chatting to begin with that’s a combination of high karma , posted pics of your own and verifcation along with participation in different subs - at minimum . We’re getting hundreds of messages a week (some more) so if you can’t stand apart from the others just use a pay service

If looking for a guy, they’re all over . If looking for a man pretending to be a woman, there are a lot of them too and most are decent about how far they go to perpetuate the lie

Real women - 99.9% of them - aren’t coming into Reddit to get randoms off , not for free at least .

We’re getting hundreds of DMs a week from horny guys if we wanted to go that route . And the tiny tiny percent who may be interested in doing it for free- they’re going to choose people who actually make an effort . People with a lot of karma , Pics posted on their profile that aren’t just dick pics and those verified in multiple subs . Those that post and comment and take the time to engage people. And those that actually have some sort of standard . Most guys aren’t saying oh I hope I can chat a sexy brunette in her 40s that loves to hike or a 25 year old blond who loves classic rock. It’s like any vagina will do and that’s more off putting than a profile with nothing on it . Your profile is a blank slate . The only people that are gonna respond to that lack of effort are men having a laugh because it makes you an easy target. Thats like a guy thumbing through a phone book , picking a random number and calling a woman to see if she wants to fuck.

If you can’t do all four of those , The simple answer is pay for it .Either find an OF or Fansly creator who offers it or sext Panther dot com is specifically created for that . But there’s a reason this question is asked by guys several times an hour daily on most nsfw subs . The only women engaging this are men using stolen pics , fake accounts etc . It’s a service , if the time isn’t being put into having an awesome profile then it’s a service that’s paid for.

It’s not impossible to find what you’re looking but it’s like wanting to see snow in Miami … and without a lot of effort , it’s gonna be dudes catfishing .

Like if I’m hungry , I can go to a nice restaurant and get a meal I love , pay for it and not have to worry about cooking or cleaning . If I don’t think there’s value in paying to eat at a restaurant I can spend time in the kitchen looking through what I have , preparing the meal , eating it , then working on cleaning up . But I can’t expect to just go to the restaurant and have them give me a meal for free

People aren’t going to find what they want online without putting in real work and effort and if looking to actually meet like in real life (I’ve met literally dozens of men and women over the years off Reddit) there reallllllly needs to be a lot more to it . We won’t even respond to a chat about meeting unless the person has high karma , a ton of great quality pics (no dick pics ) verification and has others tagged they’ve met off here

I get people have fantasies of this big anonymous sex fest on Reddit but it has to be based in reality

If one doesn’t want to bother putting real time and effort into their profile and interacting with people and taking the time to make both extremely well thought out and detailed then it’s something they pay for