So yesterday I’ve (F26) been talking with my partner (M26) about our sex life. I took courage and told him that what I really need is submitting more to him. He already knows that, we naturally fall in the roles of sub/dom but it’s not like he wants to do that every time. When he does, he’s good and I trust him completely (given we’ve been together for almost ten years) but goes a little too soft on me. I’ve been telling him what I need, how rough I need it, and he has been completely understanding. I feel I am the kind of submissive that is always obedient and gets wet immediately when manhandled and being told what to do. My man on the other hand, told me that he likes more of the brat side, like he needs to be provoked hard into rough sex. That is completely okay with me, I just know it will be fun, and I’m more than willing to try. But I’ve never done that, so I would appreciate y’all brats telling me about some things I could do for him. No dirty talk tho, because English is not our first language and I wouldn’t know what to say (unless you have something to suggest in Italian). Thank you for reading!

TLDR: My man wants me to behave more like a brat with him but I’ve never done that, any advice?