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I'm 22M recently graduated college and straight up recently stopped caring about women, relationships and sex. Close to zero libido and to be honest I'm not even jacking off that much either. I know they say guys around my age aren't dating anymore but I think I'm pretty good looking with abs and don't have problems getting dates or matches on tinder but still don't care about women at all.
I'm pretty stressed with life but this feels like it might be a bit more than this, as I've been stressed before to a similar degree and didn't have this complete loss of interest.
I'm pretty lean with abs and have lifted weights for years and had this phase that ended 6 weeks ago for 3 months where I did like 2 BJJ sessions a week, 4 bodybuilding workouts and maybe 5-6 hours of cardio as well as 4 workdays a week, but I eventually stopped and my sex drive has just fallen off a cliff somewhere along the line since finishing college.
I used to be somewhat jealous and insecure about getting cheated on (I've never stopped a girl from going out with her friends you know, I was never at that level) but now when I think about it I really wouldn't give a fuck if a girl cheated on me right now. It straight up wouldn't bother me at all that's really how low my interest in girls is at the moment.
As others have said, prolly low T. Are you waking up with erections?
When I was your age (and today, still) I was thinking about sex 2-4x a day. Iām on the same wave length of not giving AF about women and would rather focus on myself / making money / working out / making an impact on the world,
But
Still wanna fuck.
You wake up with morning wood?
Woody mornings is usually a good indication of T-levels.
But stress can affect all that shizā¦ but even when Iāve been stressed to the max Iāve had wood in the AMs, only when my T-Levels dropped that the morning woods did as well.
Having said that, youāre young and got the rest of your life to āworryā about girls. Keep working on yourself player
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Just about every morning should be the case bro. Def sounds like t-levels.
Not sure why you are so stressed, lolā¦ but you gotta take a chill pill and chillax. If you knew what I was going through your shit would probably crater lol.
I remember in my 20ās (and yes I know itās all anecdotal) I was stressed out about some stuff but it PALES in comparison to what I went through back then.
But āback thenā is what taught me about having a stronger back and being more resilient.
As Tony Robbins says, life is about the meaning you assign situations - and what you plan on doing as a result of what happens around you. Thereās things that happen, thereās the meanings you assign those things, and thereās what youāre gonna do about it.
98% of your āproblemsā are in your head. Not tryna trivialize your shit, but Iām sure you will be aight, give it some time.
Sounds like youāre back in the gym, so thatās your first major with starting point- the rest is a matter of eating some red meat and lifting heavier.
But doesnāt sound like you WANT to want to be thinking about women, which is fine.