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I really want to have a bj only relationship, but every time I try, he seems to be really uncomfortable with the idea of him not ever getting me off.
I try really hard to explain that it’s fine and that I really don’t care that I’m not cumming and that I can just go masturbate later. But they always seem to ask if they can touch me.
It’s honestly a huge turn off and idk how to get them to stop mentioning it.
Seems like it should be a non-issue… I mean, I’d love it if my girl would drain me daily, or even morning and night, which I’d love love love even more.
That said, for most men (and women) it’s not just the getting off, but it’s about the connection. So it can be hard to have the connection if you are purely being the submissive and not “allowing” him to give anything reciprocally
You don’t let him do anyyything to you? Why not?
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You’re already turning him off by NOT allowing him to do stuff with you.