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I’ve been suspicious of my wife for the past two months. Too many red flags to ignore. Tonight, a friend snapped a pic of her getting on a hotel elevator with a man.
Advice on how to confront her about this. Do’s and don’ts?
UPDATE: I know 90% of you said not to confront her. Everyone said not to confront her. And I wasn’t going to.… but then I let my emotions get the best of me and I told her I know 😂
She tried to deny for a while but eventually admitted it (kinda, she claims they “only” made out).
We’re going to try for an amicable divorce. I’ve held my ground on a few things like split custody. And if she wants the house she’ll need to buy me out. She’s actually conceded to almost all of my requests. But at the same time, none of them are official. Maybe I fucked up 🤷🏻♂️
tl;dr looking for tips on confronting my wife about her affair.
I think, like most situations where you know something and the other doesn’t, you have the opportunity to make an EPIC confrontation or “surprise!” And boom she’s in checkmate, and humiliated, depending on how hard in the paint you wanna go.
I haven’t had THIS experience, but something similar where a friend told me another friend was going to play a cruel prank on me… and I was able to turn the tables in a gnarly way.
Sometimes these situations are such that there’s no definitive “RIGHT” confrontation, just degrees of intensity.
Regardless, you should be emotion less and stoic.
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