I mean they're a guy who's sleeping with a girl what is there to be insecure about its straight maybe it falls under queer heterosexuality depending on who you ask. Either way its straight to me and theres no reason to hide a relationship with a woman of trans or intersex experience inface while I dont want to sound like a chaser I'll come out and say some of my best relationships have been with trans and intersex women which may have influenced my preferences a bit but not by much and pretty much for that reason I never felt like I had to hide a girlfriend like a dirty secret because they aren't and yeah I had "friends" tell me to date cis women only make me the butt of jokes or punk on me in other ways for who I was involved at the time even then I didnt keep my love life a secret I just dropped the shitty people telling me to change or worse insulting anyone I was dating and kept going on about my life I'm wondering why they hell cant other men do the same