I matched with a guy on Hinge about two weeks ago, and it seemed like it was going well. He was 26 and seemed pretty cool. He was on vacation at the time, so I messaged on and on until we got back. When I asked him out last week, it took a day for them to respond. Then he got confused and thought I meant this week instead of last week on Sunday, but was still free and was down to meet up. We exchanged numbers, I told him where to meet at, but he never confirmed a time he was coming. When I tried to contact him, he wouldn't answer. I unmatched and deleted his number right after.

I am so sick of the lack of options and the games these people play. I also try in IRL, but whenever I talk to a guy, they always have a boyfriend. It just gets under your skin after a while. I'm 32, nice looking (not to toot my own horn, and that doesn't entitle me to anything) fit, love to communicate with people and make them laugh, affectionate, and want the same, but I can't find it. I want to keep hope alive, but ya'll it is fucking hard out here.