I’mim hoping some of y’all can help me out or just help ease my potentially irrational thoughts. From what I can tell, guys are usually either into masculine guys or feminine guys. I know it’s not quite so black and white, but how many guys like a mix of the two?

I’m pretty masculine in my interests, but I haven’t really shown this side of myself when it comes to meeting other guys. I tend to express my sexual side more femininely, which is what my account (warning it’s very nsfw) on here is mostly tailored to and what i tend to show at bars and when I’m looking for temporary company. I don’t intend to change my profile or myself, but I get worried sometimes when it comes to meeting guys. I can usually find hookups when I want to, but I’m starting to want something long term. Because I can come off masculine in public but I enjoy expressing my feminine side in bed, I worry that I won’t really fit into a category. I enjoy hooking up but I’m starting to get tired of it and I want romance. Like I get worried that if I show both sides of myself then whoever I’m with will get whiplash or find that I’m not who he thought I was.

Maybe I’m crazy and maybe this is way to specific, I just get anxious. This might get buried by other posts but if y’all have input or support or if you want to talk about dating struggles/anxieties I’m here. Sorry if this was long/confusing.