Reposting this here:
Nobody owes you sex. People are allowed to change their minds. If it happens to you, don’t be weird, just move on.
With online hookups — outside of certain niche kinks —visual attraction tends to be a make or break factor. If you don’t have any pictures of yourself posted on your profile and are reluctant to send any, your chances of ever meeting greatly decrease.
In that same vein, sending pictures doesn’t automatically mean someone has to accept you. Sometimes people just don’t like what they see. Personally, I’ve ghosted people because I’d rather do that than make a comment about their body that they can’t really change (weird looking genitals, etc.)
UPDATE YOUR PICTURES. If I receive pictures from someone that are dark, grainy and looks like they were taken with a digital camera from 2006, I instantly move on. Take some good pictures of yourself (or body) with good lighting and find angles that are flattering.
Use your brain. If someone posts looking for a specific type of person, and you don’t fit those parameters why would you ever comment or reply? If someone doesn’t want you don’t try to convince them to throw you a bone.
Learn what NSA means. If someone hooks up with you once, there is nothing obligating them to do so again. If they ghost you, don’t read into. See #1
If I’m in Conway, looking for someone close by today and I state as much in my post, and you’re in bumblefuck west AR, why did you even reply to the post? See #5
Don’t lie. So you sent me 10 year old pictures. You’ve since gained weight and your body looks nothing like what you sent. Now we’re meeting. Either I’m sending you on your way, or I go through with it and decide to never see you again. Either way, it’s weird.
It’s just sex. You’re not gonna die from blue balls. Yes, this one is about you men. Grab some lube and a pocket pussy and call it a day.
Idk, I just had 9 things, but a list of 9 looks weird.
Hope this helps someone.
TLDR; Don’t be weird. Use common sense. Jerk off. Touch grass.
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