me (M18) and my bf (M19) have been dating for two years now. there have been many instances where we have both acted out of jealousy and made accusations toward each other (at the very beginning of our relationship when we were sophomores in high school…). we broke up in april because i wanted to explore but we got back together the following month because we love each other. our relationship is great, we have fun and we laugh and call each other regularly, but there have been a few bumps. most recently happened today, i don’t remember what we were talking about but i ended up at how my friend Auri (F18) sent me a picture of the guy she hooked up with’s penis, saying how it was huge and crazy. of course he wanted to see, so i showed him and he got jealous. he scrolled up in our conversation (without my permission) to where it said that i wanted to see it. auri: do you wanna see his massive cock it was insane me: i do wanna see! then i said something like “goddamn that’s huge!” that was it. he says the problem was that i wanted to see it, but i didn’t think it was a big deal. it’s just a penis right? he then proceeded to go through my other dms before i could stop him. i had sent the side eyes emoji to my friend after they showed me a screenshot where someone thought i was attractive. it did happen while we were dating, that happened four months ago and i never talked to the person who had said that about me. ive apologized, and i understand why he’s sad. but i feel like i’m not entirely in the wrong here. am i? AITA?