Basically I asked my friend to drive me to/from my colonoscopy appointment since I’d be getting anesthesia and wouldn’t be able to drive myself. I asked her if she’d be able to do it 8 weeks ago and followed up almost weekly to make sure she could do it. I contacted her the night before to confirm with her. I let her know if she was unable, please let me know and I’ll ask someone else. But she assured me it was no problem.

Well the morning of the appointment, she’s a no show. She finally texted me back and let me know she was at some random guy’s house and would be at least 15 min late. At this point I’m panicked because it was time for me to leave. Luckily my brother was visiting and was able to drive me at the last minute, but if not for him, I would have had no way to get to/from my appointment.

Anyone who’s had the colonoscopy will tell you that the two day prep is awful. I’m angry with my friend because she almost made me miss my appointment. I would have missed the appointment if I showed up 15 minutes late. I’m thinking about cutting off the friendship because of this (and other disrespectful behavior from her). Am I overreacting?