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An ex. Now, but always wanted an Outsiders opinion.
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My gf at the time was heading out with some of her friends. Which was normal and I didn't have an issue. Though I did remind her that we had a flight booked at 1600 the next day to attend a wedding in Ireland.

Ive never been the jealous type, just a I'm disappointed type of guy. Haha. So I get a message at 01:00 telling me she is having a good time and where they are and if she should get a taxi or if Im up come pick her up at 02:30. I said sure I'll come and get you.

So 02:15 came and I messaged her and told her I was on my way. No response at all.. So thought OK I'll go to the club where she said she would be. Waiting there until 03:00, nothing she wasn't there. Now I was a little worried so I call her and phones off.. So I message her one friend and she said. Oh I was only out till 0100 as I was working but the ex was with 2 others. I message the others and one says she was drunk and chucked out of the club. The other one messages me saying she must have got a taxi. So I went home.

I get home and no ones there. So I try her phone again and nothing.. Just goes to voicemail. So a bit worried now.. So I start messaging whoever I thought might have seen her and or heard from her.. At 06:00 at this point.

So I hear nothing... I go to sleep expecting her to come along any minute. So I wake up at 13:00 and still no sign and we are suppose to be catching our flight at 16:00. I try calling and still nothing by 14:30. So I think meh.. Looks like I'm flying alone, so I head off for the weekend at a nice country venue all paid for. At 18:00, I get message from her, saying sorry I totally slept and if I have gone to Ireland. My house is all locked up. I completely ignored her. At this point I was going to break up with her anyway when I got back, this kind of behaviour is a deal breaker for me.

Anyway we Communicated and she explained that her phone had run out of power and that she was drunk and couldn't get ahold of me. And that she was kicked out of the club. So I asked why didn't you get a taxi home or wait for me as you told me to pick you up.. She claims she didn't think of that. I then ask where she had stayed as it wasn't with any of her friends. She said to me at a house, where a nice old man let me stay on his couch. She claimed her clothes were always on and nothing happened. But who goes to bed in a strangers house and is still there until 17:00 the next day.. You'd want to get out there as soon as you can. So she said she was passed out and didn't even realise the time. So stranger didn't wake you up and say OK you can leave my house now please. She said no.. But that the old man had been so polite and she was thankful he let her stay. So my next question was did you just get a taxi from his straight to mine, which was a Yes. So I said.. Well what was his address we should go over and thank him. She miraculous didn't know what the address was. So I said how did you get the taxi to pick you up then? You must know the address. And on the denial of that.. She found herself single. Still to this day she claims her story. Was it overreacting to ditch her, or do you think she was cheating. As things just didn't add up?

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