Hello everyone.

As the title says, I am in the Albuquerque area but willing to travel (some) for the right dynamics.

Looking for those who want (or need) to be spanked. I can be a strict disciplinarian or do something more light-hearted, though I prefer the stricter side. Willing to discuss some "switch" opportunities, but this is mostly bdsm oriented and would be highly dependent upon our specific personal chemistry.

Happy to start with something virtual/online and see where it goes.

Prior consent is required. Happy to discuss what and how, with more flexibility after we have an established dynamic. Prior to an initial session I expect to talk quite a bit in order to set appropriate boundaries, expectations, and build trust.

Below is my posting text from /spanking_personals to give you a better idea of the dynamic I'm looking for.

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"Just wait until we get home!" I whisper in your ear, giving your upper arm a firm squeeze. "You will go straight to the woodshed. Do you understand?"

Are you an adult who's been acting more like a rebellious teenager than the grown-up you claim to be? Do you consistently struggle with self-discipline and accountability? Perhaps you've been getting away with bad behavior, showing up late to work, or being a poor friend. But deep down, you know that's not acceptable.

You've had it drilled into your head since childhood: "Big girls don't cry," "Don't make me come over there," or "Because I said so." And yet, here you are, an adult who still can't seem to follow the rules. Maybe what you really need is someone to finally hold you accountable - someone with a firm hand and strict demeanor.

I have a passion for discipline and structure, and feel that I've developed a keen sense of what it takes to create a productive and respectful environment. That's exactly what I'm looking to create in our relationship.

My Approach:

• Firm hand and variety of impact toys (paddles, straps, domestic implements)
• Disciplinary activities designed to promote personal growth:
  • Cornertime
  • Writing lines/apologies
  • Completing chores as punishment
  • Other forms of atonement agreed upon in advance
• Hard, embarrassing, and long-lasting spankings for misbehavior
• Prior consent required for all activities
• Flexible boundaries and open communication

About Me:

• 5'8", ~175lb
• College-educated professional by day
• Hobby farm/ranch owner with a passion for discipline and structure
• Willing to travel (some) for the right dynamics

Regular sessions possible upon mutual agreement (no romantic relationship desired)

I value honesty and respect above all else. Before our first session, we'll discuss boundaries, expectations, and build trust through detailed conversations. I encourage open communication and look forward to receiving feedback from you.

If you're interested in exploring a disciplinary dynamic with me, please reach out. I respect your identity, safeword, preferences,and limits above all else.

Tags: #NewMexico , #Albuquerque, #WestTexas, #Amarillo