I’ve got my life together, professionally and personally. I have a great career, and I'm extremely ambitious. I’m 5’1” and 104 lbs, divorced, and I don’t have kids (yet). I’d like to get married and start a family in the next few years. I’m religious, and have been living in Canada for almost two decades.
I’m a passionate cook who enjoys making fresh meals daily, I don’t do leftovers, and if we work out, neither will you. You’ll be in good hands! I’ve been raised in a joint family, so I’m comfortable with family dynamics and would love to embrace and care for both sides if you value keeping your parents/siblings close. That comes with a lot of respect for boundaries and cooperation, of course.
My love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service. Loyalty, prioritizing family, and emotional availability are equally important. I excel at time management due to the nature of my job and can balance work and home seamlessly. I genuinely enjoy taking care of the house, cleaning, cooking, and have strong opinions over aesthetics. I do have a strong sense of responsibility, so I’d love to build a home together with someone who values that.
What I’m looking for:
- Very well-established in Canada or US only (I work remotely and will not relocate outside these countries).
- It is extremely important that you are financially stable and ambitious, I want a partner whose drive matches, ideally exceeds mine. I definitely do not want to outearn you at any point.
- Someone loyal, respectful, and open to clear verbal communication. Trust is non-negotiable.
- I don’t drink or smoke and cannot tolerate drugs or the smell of weed.
- I work out everyday and I'm constantly trying new things for the upkeep of my physical and mental well being. I'd want someone who does the same. Chemistry/physical attraction is important.
- Someone who wants kids and marriage
- I am very decisive. So I'm looking for someone who can initiate and shoulder that decision making responsibilities. Please do not leave it to me to decide who to invite when we're hosting, what to order, etc, etc. I can make those decisions myself but I do not want to. Just tell me what to do and consider it done.
- Someone emotionally intelligent and can hold up a conversation
- I treat words as bond, it is important you value the same. This can build or break trust and respect in an instant for me
I am not looking for fluff, being love bombed or chase, but would be nice if relationship comes with it. What's important to me is for this relationship to last a lifetime. For that, love, trust and alignment at all times is crucial.
I’m not looking for a “partner” in household chores, I enjoy managing the home myself, from aesthetics to what time breakfast should be served. However, I want someone who confidently takes the lead in other aspects of life, conversations, planning, decision-making. I need someone I can fully trust and rely on, who has their life together and is ready to build a beautiful future.
If you've made it to the end and interested, please message me your age, country you're located in and what qualities you're looking for in your partner.
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