Decided to make my own post today.

Why? It seems almost every post I replied to ended up being an ad for an OF girl, or similar thing in order to drive traffic to their sites and services. And I couldn’t be less interested in that kind of thing.

So, if you’re NOT an OnlyFans girl, and your end goal is NOT about getting paid for adult type of content, play, sexting, etc., then I welcome you to reply if you feel interested in the following:

Fun, lighthearted, cute dates and SFW activities once we feel comfy enough to do so. I need to feel comfortable as well. It’s a two way street.

I don’t care if you’re poor, as long as you try to carry yourself well, be polite and clean, and don’t cause drama. Most of the struggling folks I know are genuinely humble and kind.

I don’t care if you’re wealthy, just don’t be a condescending or a pretentious snob who feels entitled to the world. Being mean to servers is a hard No for me. Honestly, most of the wealthy souls I know are incredibly well-mannered and gracious.

I don’t care if you’re somewhere in the middle, or if you are perfectly adjusted with two loving parents. I don’t care if you’re an emotional wreck or a social misfit of some sort that feels awkward at every turn, as long as you want to get better or desire to feel more comfortable in your own skin, and are genuinely open to getting help from others.

Regarding the physical, sometimes it’s difficult to say what one will eventually find attractive. But honestly, I don’t care how tall or short you are, or if your build is thin or if you have some extra. I don’t care how big or small your boobs are. It doesn’t matter to me if you have freckles or wear glasses, or not.

None of that matters to me.

What matters to me is if you can sit across from me at a table in a nice restaurant and be present, thoughtful, and engaged in conversation, without having to peek at your phone every two minutes.

Just to give you some idea of my preferences, I do prefer a softer, more feminine and natural vibe than the opposite. A middle ground works just as well for me too. Just personally not into the super hard looking, max makeup or overly done aesthetic. No offense if that’s your jam. Just trying to relate what works well for me.

Me, physically: At 5’10”, I’ve never been called short. I used to skate and surf as a kid in LA but I have leaned out in my later years. I’m NOT built like a bouncer. I’m more of a gentle, creative, nerd type with a lot of calm confidence. Hardly intimidating. I’ve been in bands before, am an expert skier, and I have been an off and on again equestrian my whole life. Balance, perception, and dexterity are my key physical ingredients. Dark hair and brown eyes.

So, if you read this far, thanks. It’s not as complicated as it sounds. Just be willing to meet someone new that is older and wiser. Yes, I have a desire to meet someone older than Millie Bobby Brown and younger than Margot Robbie. It’s not a fetish, I just wish to engage with a younger energy before I get older. Just being honest.

I’m not looking to fall in love. I don’t want another kid and I’m not just looking for intercourse with a stranger. And I don’t want to change my living situation with my kid. I have been married.

I’m looking to feel and be felt by, someone. Someone I can share times and activities with. I don’t want a ONS. I’m not on OLD apps. This is simply a shot in the dark for one special person who wants to elevate and expand their world on a genuine level.

I’ll probably throw this one post around to a few subs for a couple days, and then see who shows up. I’ll take it down within a week or so.

I am conscious, present, and a baller in my own right. I associate and socialize with next level people and groups, far above what I have found so far on Reddit. And I promise that I am able to back all this up.

I’m okay with being a father figure. We can talk more about this one on one.

If you’re still interested, please DM or chat me a link to one of your favorite songs, movie clips, or TV meme and we can go from there. If you don’t, I will think you’re a bot and less likely to take it seriously. Replies with pics go to the front of the line.

Thank you very much for taking the time to read this mini novel.

xo