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44 [M4F] #NETHERLANDS #IRL looking for my girl (22-34, Dutch or English speaking)
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iamcatpapi is a male age 44 looking for a female in Netherlands
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Hoping to find my person; my boo and all-around best friend.
I go well with someone nerdy, somewhat reserved, quirky, introverted, shy but cheeky and a little bratty once they feel comfortable.
Authenticity, sense of style, and intelligence are important to me. Personal flair over uniformity.
I’d love to be surprised by your style, ideas and quirky wit. That’s definitely charming to me, so it would be great if you are smart and passionate about your studies or curious about learning new things. I’d love to hear what you are passionate about and have friendly silly banter while we stay in, acting goofy, being our true selves, cooking, eating, or going on a hike.
If makeup and shopping are your only passion, we might not click. But if you're confident enough to hypothetically let me cut your hair, rock my hoodie and oversized t-shirt in public, we could definitely vibe.
I'm a mix of outdoorsy and homebody, equally at ease in nature—hiking, surfing, skating—or lounging at home, gaming, cooking, or being a potato in sweatpants.

I have been working in the creative industry for a long time and have done many different things within different fields of work, ranging from directing to video editing, set building, sound design, and animation.
I’m interested in music production, making videos, AI, internet culture, skateboarding, and keen on improving my surfing. I just got a PS5 for the rainy days and the winter. I never really considered myself to be a gamer, usually getting bored quite fast. Nevertheless, I really enjoyed playing Cyberpunk 2077, which I've just finished. Overall, I like my music and art non-mainstream. I appreciate when music or art in general has a slight unsettling, unapologetic element or vibe to it. This doesn’t mean that I exclusively listen to obnoxious or extreme music; rather, I believe that music is art, and art should be uncompromising. I listen to all kinds of genres.
Humor and playfulness play a significant role in my life; I enjoy its more peculiar nuances and can effortlessly navigate, or even embrace, the subtle awkwardness and cringy moments that often elude others.
Last but not least, I am a proud papi of two feline boys, so I’m pretty much always covered in cat hair; hope you’re not allergic. :)

NSFW: I stay active, look younger than my age, well-endowed, and good-looking.
My type would be someone playful and submissive in bed.
Physically, I lean towards someone a bit shorter, petite, slim or average body type, with dark hair and tanned or darker skin. I’m particularly attracted to someone with Asian, Pacific, Surinamese, Latina, or mixed backgrounds.
While I appreciate vanilla, I prefer to take the lead and take control. I'm definitely the dominant one and enjoy switching up between being rough and gentle.

Kink is not a 24/7 lifestyle for me, but I'm curious and open to new experiences with the right person, from BDSM to playful experimentation. I am not super experienced in all of these kinks, but some that interest me are free use, moresomes, CG/l, watching, roleplay, D/s dynamics, rough play, aftercare, and CNC. (Not interested in pain or potty play.)
Looking for a girl who is open, equally curious, and eager to explore together.
Aiming for long-term ideally, but let’s see where things naturally lead. I’m definitely ready for commitment with the right person.

If this has sparked your curiosity, drop me a line and let’s swap stories.
Looking to actually meet IRL, so it would be great if you either live close or are willing to travel, if the vibe is right.
Hit me up if you like what you read, tell me about yourself, and please include a picture.
Curious to hear from you and thanks for reading!
Hope to talk soon x

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