https://imgur.com/a/oFLCdGE

(yes, that link as a pic of me)

If you voted red, don’t bother responding. I don’t care how hot you may be.

Simple responses just saying things like ‘hey’ will be ignored. Read this entire post, and if you’re interested, show me so by responding as instructed.

I’m a SWM (no kids) in Ventura, 6’2, 195, 8”, D/D-free, well-read and very intelligent, animal-loving, laid-back, easy-going and easy to talk to, naturally athletic, broad-shouldered and muscular with a tapered-V physique and an intimidating physical presence, charismatic and self-aware, patient, completely at ease and sure of myself.

I’m an assertive, strict and commanding, naturally Dominant Master looking for a submissive woman (mid-20s to mid-40s) to be in a monogamous - I’m a one-woman guy - relationship (LTR) that would involve the dichotomy of genuine connection, bonding, friendship and affection with you being completely and overtly sexually objectified. You’d go about your life whenever we’re apart, but your top priority would always be to sate my sexual appetites, and your body would become My Personal Sexual Property to do with as I please. You’d be trained to know your place with me, and you’d be regularly reminded - often forcefully- of what your place entails. This will be out of your comfort zone, and it will intimidate you and make you nervous. But you’ll be surprised by how much it excites you.

I’m a rugged, masculine guy, and I like feminine women, so the more feminine you are, the better. The more mature and intelligent you are, the better. I do like physical bimbos but have no interest in airheads or party girls.

At the same time I’m holding doors open for you, I’m a demanding Master. I’d be controlling you to a great extent, having you customize your appearance per my command - growing your hair out and always doing your lips and nails how I want them done. You’d be made to keep yourself fit and your body nice and eye-catching. To always keep your Master appraised of what you’re doing whether I’m responding or not, accountable to me at all times, and you’d be made to send me frequent selfies showing me how you’re looking and what you’re wearing as you go about your days, always striving to please your Master by showing him the face and body that you want to serve him with.

And while there would be expectations of you, immediacy wouldn’t be one of them. I don’t need instant gratification, and I’m not into casual hookups.

Sexually, I’m very rough, forceful, and vulgar. I overpower and manhandle. I forcefully put you into whatever position I want you in. I grab and pull hair. I grip and squeeze flesh. I lightly slap your pretty, made-up face. I spank. I growl into your ear and call you all sorts of things. I talk very dirty throughout and make you reciprocate the vulgarity.

I’m not into anything that could be considered hardcore or extreme. No piss, scat, blood, or anything like that.

More about all of this can be discussed in chat, and you can always ask about anything you’re curious about or the least bit unsure about.

No experience is necessary. It doesn’t matter to me how little sexual experience you may have, nor how much. I’m very capable at breaking you in and training you if you’ve never done this sort of thing before.

Again, I like maturity and intelligence. Femininity and girlishness. Slender or in-shape (but not skinny) figures. Long hair. Nice breasts. And women that gush over their pets. I could watch that all day.

I’m not into BBWs or bratty types, and any kind of smoking or vaping, including 420, is a dealbreaker. I don’t care how hot you are. I’m not ever interested in talking politics except to say that I’m very definitely Pro-Choice.

I play baseball on weekends in adult leagues - baseball, not softball - and you’d come to as many of my games and tournaments as you could.

Also, be forewarned - if you have a dog, I’ll be coming over all the time and half our time will be spent with me alternating between playing with him/her and watching you gush over him/her. And he/she will absolutely love me.

If you’re interested, describe yourself physically and tell me what turned you on and made you want to respond. Be bold and expressive. Don’t worry about saying too much. Impress me with your wantonness. If you’re going to send pics, DO NOT SEND ANYTHING NAKED. Just normal pics, but you want me to find you attractive, so show me your face and body.

If I’m interested, I’ll take it from there. If I’m not, I’ll let you know. I wouldn’t just ghost you.

dom #domsub #bdsm