Trying to be as transparent as possible and hoping you can be the same with me. I value mutual respect, communication, and trust very much so meeting someone who can give me that would mean a lot to me.

I’m currently a senior in college, an on/off sex worker, a professional fighter, unpublished author, co-owner of a small construction business, and a cybersecurity engineer. I have a million passions I could talk your ear off about and trust me I can talk. My passion and zest for life are two things I pride myself on actually :) and I would hope to meet someone who is similar to me. In fact this is a bit obnoxious but I have a rule of not getting into bed with someone I don’t find intellectually stimulating and I don’t see that standard ever changing. I’m a proud sapiosexual and meeting someone who is mature and serve as an intellectual equal would mean the world.

In terms of the sort of relationship I’m looking for, I’m open to suggestions but I would be willing to do a lot for my partner and I am not shy in the slightest. For the paid services I’ve done in the past, I am a proud switch so I have done light domination and even submission. I’m also an incredibly kinky partner and have done VERY extreme things and scenes (home invasions, cuckolding, humiliation, degrading, etc). I consider myself very generous and would happily provide regular or sensual massages. I’m also a very good cook and would happily cook meals whether it be personal requests or even some meals I’m just trying out and bring for you to try. I must admit someone who has diverse taste would be the best thing. We can go bar, cafe, and restaurant hopping together! I’m more than willing to spend an entire night with my partner, and sleeping over is fine too. Plus I’m a bit of a perv so if you ever asked me to help you with exercise or a yoga session I would happily help! But the ending would always be the same I get really heated doing physical things with someone.

I’m not expecting a monogamous relationship nor would I want one. I’m non monogamous and proud of that fact. I take my sexual health very seriously so trust me getting either of us sick would be the last thing I want. I’m perfectly fine with you having multiple lovers as long as we are both honest, as well as being fine with someone married as well.

I hope to meet someone serious about this, we can discuss allowances, and other details. A little more about me I’m mixed race, athletic but working off some winter fluff, 5’8, 170, and well 7.5” if that helps.

If you are serious and actually read through this, tell me your passions and we can work our way from there!