Hello potential submissives. I'm an experienced, dominant, BDSM player, with over a dozen years in the lifestyle. I'm seeking a submissive woman who would enjoy chatting and seeing where things go. I'm seeking something casual to semi-formal, but long term. Something like a kinky FWB. I am married, poly, and ENM.

A little about me:

I'm a big fan of music, of all types, and I'm always listening while Im involved in my other interests. They include cooking, DIY projects, off-roading, and camping. I value open and honest communication. I also enjoy some fun banter, and have a great sense of humor.

Kink-wise, I'm a caring, sometimes stern, occasionally sadistic, Dom. I like to have fun, and don't mind an occasional brat.

Some of my kinks are receiving service, giving tasks, body inspctions, impact play (spanking, flogging, whips, paddles), orgasm control, anal play, bondage, electrical play (violet wand, e-stim), sensation play and sensory deprivation, and some wardrobe control. Limits will be discussed and honored.

What I'm looking for:

Someone fun, emotionally mature, with a good sense of humor. I'm open to any age over 30, how every we do need to have some things in common. I don't have a "type," but I do need to find you attractive as bdsm is as visual for me as it is mental. You'll need to be comfortable sending at least a SFW pic early on. I don't care if you're in other relationships, but I need to be your only Dom.

You should already have an idea of the kinks you enjoy, and be willing to try new ones. If you try something and don't like it, that's fine. But be willing to try. You should be comfortable showing your body. I like looking at my sub, seeing her vulnerable.

If any of this resonates with you, please reach out. DMs or Chat are fine. Let me know you're answering my ad.