Hello :)

I'm a 31 year old man based in the North West of England and I'm hoping to find someone who wants to take on life with me. The most important thing I'm looking for is someone who values respect, loyalty and honesty first and foremost. I am not looking to mess around and I'm a one woman kind of guy. I expect the same from you. I know a relationship with a deep connection requires a lot of work and that's why I'd considered my life complete if I had that sort of bond. Communication is super important to make this work so I hope to find someone who wants to talk about everything and anything, no matter how much pressure it puts on us and our relationship. As long as we talk it out, we can make anything work if we have the same final goal in mind!

I do work and I've got my own house. I am looking for a girl who can support herself at the moment but I do want a more traditional relationship long term. This may be a little contradictory but I want a woman who is willing to put in the work and has a history that shows that. Life is difficult! I want someone who puts up a fight. Long term, ideally you'd be a stay at home wife. However, that's a long way off. We need to have a few adventures of our own before we start thinking about adding little ones to the mix.

I do like being the main decision maker but as I said, communication is important. Everything should be discussed and both of our opinions will be valued and taken into account. I'd just prefer to take all of that stress of making the hard decisions on my shoulders so that you can float along worry free knowing that your man is doing everything he can to give you the best life!

I do have dreams of building my own house, going travelling around the country/europe in a camper van and things like that. I do hope we can manifest them into the world together.

I have a few hobbies which mainly stem from my love of making things and fixing things. I did a lot of DIY projects in my own house and this is basically what I call my "hobbies".

I love gaming but don't have much time for it anymore. I used to love anime, too. That's a thing of the past. I would still love a cosy night in snuggled up watching a studio ghibli film or doing a LOTR marathon. As much as I love going out to restaurants and cute date nights, I love a relaxing night spent in together. Let's be honest, the majority of our time is going to be spent inside together. We should bloody well hope we enjoy that.

I don't have any physical requirements, I'd much prefer to get to know someone for who they are. That said, I'm looking for someone who is healthy or at least trying to be. Mentally and physically! I know we all have struggles but I'm not here to "fix" someone (which implies you think you are broken, you are not!). So, please be a healthy weight. I'm 5'9/175cm and would like someone shorter than myself.

So, if you're looking for a life of adventure and trying to do things outside of the box, send me a chat. I'd love to find someone who finds the idea of living off grid for a few years fun. Or someone brave enough to buy a house abroad to renovate together. Life should be fun! We should do things that give us stories to tell when we are older - don't you agree?