Dating surprisingly at 40 has been different than at 35, a lot more making friends. And I've made a lot of friends along the way, but truth be told it hasn't been what I've been seeking.
To put it bluntly, the part I'm missing is the physical intimacy. Perhaps it seems juvenile or backwards, but quite frankly I'd rather just be honest about that need at this point.
Overall, I'm looking for a friend with benefits or situationship with the hopes that maybe it can grow into something more; something that starts off more physical and intimate, where we can both release and let go and just have some fun. We can take our time on figuring out the future without rushing it. I would love for it to become something long lasting, but I really want to be honest about that physical portion upfront.
About me: 40 year old Asian man, tall (6'1"), in shape (exercise regularly). Stable white collar job, plays music, enjoy reading, have a pet and houseplants that are all doing well, enjoys a nice time out for lunch or dinner, can hold my end of a conversation.
Looking for: A confident and kind woman that is looking for someone to just have fun activities with, including those in the bedroom. I'm pretty flexible on race though my preferences have mostly been with white or Asian women. I do prefer height-weight proportional (e.g., thin, average, fit, curvy in the right places), and that you be local (in the DC/DMV area), also ddf. I'm also not one to judge people's situations, and can and will be discreet.
Hope to hear back
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