Hey there, and welcome! I am a 31 year old guy from Wisconsin looking for that dinner party co-host, Friday fish fry date, and mashed potatoes to my gravy.

I am born and raised in Wisconsin, working in a career path that is soulfully fulfilling. I love what I do and I work to live but do not live to work. My hobbies change based upon the season and I cannot wait to be back in my yard planting gardens and sitting outside with a Mai Tai.

Physically, I am 5'9" and have a mild dad body, but take care of myself. I have been described as having questionable taste in shirts, great hair, a loud laugh, a wide range in music taste, and too many hobbies. I have a deep and commanding voice and sometimes slip into my Wisconsinisms.

I am an old soul, and have always been one. Ever since I was a child, I dreamt of having that house with the nice yard, three (or more cars) to satisfy my inner gear head, and a partner to come home to who helped with keeping things straight. I have always had a love of mid century custom and culture (minus racism and heavy misogynism). I am also a modern man and know that a modern twist is needed, so while I would enjoy a roast every night, I know the limitations of this (my belt being one of them). There is a happy medium somewhere within this where we both can be modern but also thrive within a more traditional framework.

I discovered BDSM when I was 20 and have found that I am more fulfilled and a better person when a dynamic is in my life. I am a managerial type that enjoys the structure of rules and expectations, helping my partner be her best, and together rising to be better people. I enjoy creampie, breeding, impact play, breast play, lingerie, domestic, lactation, and toys, to just name a few.

I am getting long winded with this but shoot me a message if you are interested in chatting. Tell me your favorite smell so I know you made it to the bottom!