Me: living a complicated life, but so touch deprived that it hurts sometimes. All I want is a younger woman to adore and spoil and worship…. And for me to dominate. My marital bed is dead and buried. My marriage is over and divorce is imminent. We have a mutual agreement to co exist non sexually in order to parent our children and provide as much stability as possible during this time. I plan to love and support them and help with homeschooling and sports as much as possible. I try to be the best father I can be, but need fulfillment and happiness of my own as well. I’m only there for the kids. Judge me if you must, but I am too young to be celibate and I’m hoping to find love and happiness again. I am open to and ready to change my living situation when I meet the right woman. I’ve had affairs for sex. Now I want more. I want sex and love.

You: 25-40, almost, or full on, a gym rat but in love with dad bods… meaning you want to keep yourself fit for “my pleasure” but you don’t mind that I’m thicker in the middle. All you want in life is to be adored and loved… and to worship an older man. You get turned on by the idea of being used for his pleasure. All you want is to make him happy. You love receiving pain, and being called a slut and whore. You love being available for free use, whatever Daddy wants Daddy gets, right Kitten? But you also love it when he gives you advice on what to wear when you show him your choices. You want him to help pick out nail colors. You want to wear his favorite color as much as possible to let him know how much you cherish him. You want to go out with friends and come home drunk to his arms. You want to go to cheap motels and fuck all day long. You want to drink a big mouthful of tequila and swap it into his mouth unexpectedly. And nudes? To hell with sending nudes. You know your Daddy wants you to send him porn with you as the star.

He worships the ground you walk on, and you making him happy makes you happy. And making you happy is all I want. A circle of love, with us in the middle.

Us: always talking. Texting. Sexting, chatting, snuggling, playing, touching, loving, fucking, talking talking talking. For a D/s dynamic to work we need to communicate. All. The. Time. If you feel neglected, tell me. If I’m afraid you don’t like me, I’ll tell you. If you need help with something, anything, just ask. I’ll never yell at you. Ill never get frustrated, even if it’s the 27th time we have talked about whatever it is.

I’ll never, ever, strike you in anger.

There is no punishment. Ever. I’ll torture you for pleasure only. I’ll never, ever, ever, make you feel less than me. We are a team. I will always ask your opinion and respect it and consider it before making a decision. And I expect the same in return. If you want to go against my decision teach me why you think that way is better. I promise to always keep an open mind if you do as well.

Eventually, you will wear my collar. Day and night. Something sexy and beautiful and discrete, like you.

Please. Don’t DM if you are trying to sell and OnlyFans or sell me your time. I’m serious. Please be serious in return.