Hello there! 👋 Thanks for stopping by. Sit down and I’ll tell you a little bit about me.

I’m 39 years old. I’ve been married for 11 years, but the last three years have been… rough. You probably know the story. We drifted apart. Or maybe we grew in different directions. I’m not really sure. I’ve tried to fix it on my end, but it’s kind of like the old saying goes: “It takes two to tango.” My dance partner, unfortunately, has decided she’s content with a relationship where we’re friends raising kids together. She doesn’t feel the need to give the romantic gestures, take in the sweet breath of life, or experience intimacy together. We’ve talked about it. Changes were promised, but they never came. And now I’m stuck in a stagnant relationship because I can’t bring myself to leave my kids.

Truth be told, I feel a little taken advantage of. I’m a giver. I’m a supporter. I’m a provider. And she enjoys all of those things. But there are things I need, too. I need to feel valued, appreciate, seen and desired. I’m a kind, cute, hopelessly romantic guy and I’ve come to the point where I need to be able to give that to someone. Mentally. Emotionally. Physically.

What about you? If you’re here I imagine you’re in a similar situation. You feel neglected. Maybe you’re invisible. Maybe you, like me, sit in the middle of your living room with the one who was supposed to be your person, but you experience a loneliness comparable to being a thousand miles apart. He doesn’t see it or feel it like you do, but it’s tearing at you and gnawing at you. You want more. You want to be doted on and, dare I say, loved again. There are reasons you can’t leave, but you’re ready to do something with someone that’s just for the two of you.

Well, I’m looking for you. I’m looking for a woman near Springfield, MO who wants to fall in love again. I’m not looking to change your situation or mine. We both know we can’t do that. But you what we can do? We can have an affair. A romantic affair. An emotional affair. An intimate affair. A love affair. We can make something together that makes us see sparks and fills our tummies with butterflies. I believe in us. Do you?

I’m looking for someone between 30 and 45. I’ve tried to connect with people online before, and I’ve just found that, for me, that’s a good age range. I’m also looking for someone who is married and who probably has kids. Again, I’ve just found it’s easier to connect with someone who understands the joys and trials of being a parent. Physically, I’d say I don’t have a specific type. I myself am 5’11 and a little chunky. I don’t have abs, I have “ab”. But I’m cute, and I’ll make you laugh!

If any of this strikes a chord in it, send me a chat request. Tell me something that made you smile this past along with your age. We’ve got nothing to lose and, maybe, everything to gain.