I don’t need to explain why I’m here. Loneliness, need for physical touch, desire for companionship, lust, feeling wanted… all that. I’m an anxious creative (music-maker, baker, reader/writer, tennis obsessor, dog lover), an introverted person comfortable with solitude (but who ironically also used to play shows for 1000s and still does a lot of public speaking at work), and a very kind-hearted fellow who is effusive in loving his people.

Attraction is much more than just physical for me. It can come in many forms, and although physical chemistry is important, a wonderful and sexy personality can deepen attraction far beyond looks alone. About you: I’m seeking someone who loves themselves and has done the work of understanding their narrative of why they are here. I care about your willingness to take care of yourself as well as to allow yourself to be joyful and free. Trust is earned, and we are all cheaters here, so it’s complicated. I value direct communication and developing a deep bond with trust as its foundation. Self-possessed, funny, very physical and into fitness and mental health, has creative outlets and curiosity about the world. Loves sex and touching, but looks for the right connection to pour this energy into. Oh yeah, I’m only seeking one lover. Not to “rule them all”, just to hang out and have beautiful times together 🤓 #tolkein #nerdsunited

More about me: I’m very tall (6'4"), shaved bald head, hwp (200lbs) with an athletic build. I am told that I look more like 40 and that I’m handsome (by more people than just my mother). Olive skin, semitic features, big brown eyes, very large hands and feet.

*SF/Peninsula ladies*: I live in a cabin in Woodside (solo) during the weekdays… it’s awesome and is like camping in the redwoods. Complete with wood-burning stove! I feel kind of like a weird mountain hermit sometimes... It's a happy solitude, but hey, even Bigfoot gets lonely!

*Socal folks (LA area)* could also potentially be considered, but I am overall less available to meet and OPSEC/logistics are more of a challenge. Also, note that the holidays are just weird for logistics in general.

Please DM/chat me if you'd like to talk. Tell me about some things that bring you joy on a rainy day! And what are the last three songs you became obsessed with? What books are you reading? What Hallowe'en costumes did you force your dogs to wear?