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M4F [39]#NYC#NJ..Why is it really hard to find connection when you are willing to offer 200%? Is that real struggle?
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Unfair-Bed8523 is a male age 39 looking for a female in NYCNJ..Why
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Hey there! If you're looking for a genuine connection with someone who understands the importance of discretion, you might have just found the right match.

I’m a married guy who’s not looking to change either of our situations, for any reason. What I’m after is something meaningful, ongoing, and exclusive with someone who feels the same way. Let’s enjoy the thrill of secret glances, playful banter, and undeniable chemistry—without complicating the rest of our lives.

We can talk about our home lives in time, or not at all, but let's keep it light for now, I am very happy in my home life, except for the dead bedroom. Everything is happy and stable, but my relationship is missing a critical component, and it's been made clear that I need to find that somewhere else. I love the idea of spontaneous adventures,Whether it's a quick overnight escape, something a little longer, or even something local. I love small towns and the countryside, but visiting a city can be just as fun. Weekdays work best for me, and I’m open to exploring both near and far.

You: Married (like me), value your current situation, but crave that extra spark with emotional connection. You must be able to keep things discreet and appreciate the excitement of something special, just for the two of us.

Me: 39, M, Married from the garden state. I'm 5'6" with dark hair and hazel eyes. I have a thin but athletic build. Pics are available as we chat.

If this resonates with you, let’s talk and see if we click. Life is short—let’s make the most of it while keeping things simple, fun, and spontaneous.

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