I have been lucky enough to have met some pretty amazing people online with whom I’ve shared a similar interest in kinks, fantasies, or erotic play. But I recently came to grips with the fact that I want more than just a one-time encounter. I would love to share these experiences with someone I can connect with. In fact, for the first time, I would be open to an online affair even if it never led to a physical encounter as long as that strong connection was present. Although the ideal is to be able to experience both because I’m greedy and I want it all 😃.

Boom, there it is! I’m such a sensual and sexual person that I never thought I would make that statement. If you ever had a chance to read any of my prior posts, you would know that I am the guy who pushes sexual boundaries and encourages people to express their kinks and tap into their fantasies and unspoken desires with the goal of living them out. It made for some unique encounters and exploration.

In time I will repost some of these stories again because I do want to recreate these experiences all over again, but ideally, this will happen with one person. As mentioned, physical touch is essential to me, mainly because I am in a dead-bedroom marriage of 25 years. I guess I’m reinventing myself on Reddit with higher standards and realistic expectations. Which I know means that I may never find what I just described.

As a dominant male, I want to find my submissive counterpart (in the bedroom), who enjoys a firm but caring lover, to engage in sensory play and other light aspects of the BDSM realm. An adventurous woman that the idea of an erotic massage alone arouses her body and makes herself feel wanted, naughty, and desired, knowing she’s at the center of all my attention.
Someone who yearns for passionate experiences in an environment that fosters the safety needed to nurture her fantasies and desires so that they can be brought to life instead of laying dormant in silence.

This person is likely married or attached and desperately seeks to escape the monotony of a long-term relationship in which they are being neglected and their needs ignored. They don’t feel safe expressing their desires to their partner because they know they would be made to feel dirty and ashamed for even having these thoughts. In short, you are also in a dead bedroom. You have accepted that the trajectory of your bedroom life is not changing.

I’m not seeking, nor am I asking, for people to change their relationship status. But instead, bring to life a part of themselves that is slowly and cruelly dying. I am someone who values privacy and anonymity, acknowledging that it fosters the safety needed to enjoy the exploration of our unspoken kinks, fetishes, desires to role-play, and the journey of making a fantasy a reality. Oh, you should know that as much as I love receiving oral, providing oral with no reciprocity is a passion of mine.

Brief Description: I am a mid 40’s Latino gentleman, tall with a bit of a dad bod but very sexy with tan skin, dark hair, eyes, and a nice beard; present dominant in the bedroom but balances class and kink well (I may have said that already but it merits repeating).

So much more that I could share, but I’d instead like to do that one-on-one conversation

What do you say? Let’s chat!