I don’t get it. I mean, maybe it’s his Napoleon complex, but this dude has just been a fuckin dick to me lately and I don’t understand why. He’s perfectly fine with my coworker jaysun. They sit and bullshit all day and I’ve tried playfully (emphasis on playfully) flirting and just joking around. I’m always nice. There’s been a few instances in which he’s been a dick. Last week, I was coming in from my lunch and he was like maybe 30’ ahead of me and he was opening the expo door, I asked him to hold it for me since they were locking it that day and I asked him politely. He literally slammed it in my face and when I got inside he said “well, you told me to hold it, didn’t you?” With this fuckin smirk on his face. Another time, I was sitting on the grass next to the building next to us after my shift smoking a cigarette and he comes and shines this flashlight right in my face (I have sensory issues) and screams “WHAT THE FUCK? EMPLOYEES CANT FUCKIN SMOKE ON THE PREMISES”. Which, like first, I am not some fuckin slave, when I’m off the fuckin clock, I’m off the fuckin clock and I will have a goddamn smoke if I please and second, I wasn’t on the premises, I was next to the other building. The last one was yesterday and I almost went over and actually got physical with him for it. So, I closed down the bar last night and our expo door has never had the alarm on it as long as I’ve been there. So, when I came into work, I had parked my car near the expo door. When I left, I went out the expo door and the alarm sounded. From literally across the goddamn restaurant, this security guard screams at the top of his lungs “WHAT THE FUCK YOU BETTER GO GET A FUCKIN MANAGER TO FUCKIN TURN THAT SHIT OFF.” Honestly, if he hadn’t said that or had asked nicely, I would have, but bc he said that, I walked to my car and left lol. But, I seriously want to be like, who in the FUCK does this motherfucker think he is talking to? He thinks coz he’s hired to patrol the parking lot that he’s some kind of hard ass gangster or some shit, he doesn’t know anything about this life and he DAMN SURE DOES NOT KNOW A GOD DAMN THING ABOUT ME. I’m just completely done with how he is acting and how is speaking to me. I don’t know who he thinks he is. I don’t know why he thinks he’s hard, but I promise he isn’t. I know I’m going to see him tomorrow and I’m just.. guys, I’m ready to jump over my bar, grab this fucker by the neck and pin his ass down. He thinks I’m scared of his baton or even his weapon. I ain’t scared. I just don’t know why he’s acting this way. It isn’t cute and I’m 10000% done with it. What’s your advice?