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Seeking advice/thoughts on the situation can my ex and I work things out and try again?
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She left me Feb 10th...we had been fighting for awhile but it got worse when my mom tried to commit suicide just before Christmas...then we found out about a month ago my dad has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and is about to pass...when she left me we argued about why for a little bit...she wasnt happy and we need to work on ourselves...then I begged for her to stay...or take a break...or try again in a month or two...she had about a 10 minute breakdown questioning if she was making the right choice to leave but decided she had to before my dad passed or she never would...then it was 5 hours of crying saying we loved each other hugging some kissing and we'd miss each other...then last Friday I brought her a phone card to help her out...we talked for a bit about my dad...and what she was planning on doing...then she wanted to talk about us...that basically came down to she feels happy now...itll take her 6 months or so to try to get over me and shes not going to date anyone again for about 2 years...she says we are not ever going to try to get back together...as of right now anyway...she says she cant see the future but for now...no...I want to get her back I love her and I'm sure she still feels the same...I just dont know what to do...shes been pretty hateful towards me recently...I reached out after visiting my dad last week looking for some closure since she said we couldn't be friends cause she thought it would hurt me to much...we fought about it then she said just call me when you're dad dies and hung up...yesterday after a week of no contact my friend told me where she moved to so I was going to try to drop some mail of hers off in the mailbox...well she was sitting outside...I handed her the mail didnt say a word or look at her and left...then she started texting me wanting to know how I knew were she lived and getting mad at me again...I'm back to no contact now till my dad passes but...what do you think? Do I have a chance? Any sort of advice? I am completely lost here...

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