Met this girl at work. Fell for pretty quickly after starting to get to know her. Lots of time spent with her (for lack of better words) over around a 3 month stretch. From the beginning, she had said that she didn't want a relationship, but I had already fallen for her but never even expressed that out of fear of her being pressured into something. She ended things rather abruptly and even after talking so we could remain cordial at work, she thinks we're cool because I was too scared to tell her how I felt. Now I can't stop thinking about her and keep thinking back over everything to see if I did something wrong. Can't even be honest with my friends cause I don't want to burden them with it. So how do I stop thinking about what happened and get to a place where I'm ok with not being with her. She's a great person and so fun to be around, all I want is to be able to have her in my life without hoping the past repeats and just grow apart