My gf is a mommy dom type, and she even has the nursing kink, but the idea of taking domperidone seems like a hard limit for her. I suggested what if we decided to pump only, and she said that she doesnt want her breasts to get bigger, and that it would be uncomfortable. I was admittedly quite saddened by this, I think I have a hyper fixation on wet nursing (maybe because im slightly autistic and was never breast fed, idk) but the idea of never experiencing it feels like a death sentence. When we were initially talking she kind of made it seem like she was into it, stating she liked nursing, but now that we are getting more serious I feel really confused. Its really frustrating because we are literally PERFECT in every way compatability wise, in ways I have never experienced before. It almost feels like we are soul mates. It just feels so stupid to think that not wet nursing would be a deal breaker for me, but I dont know if I could live my entire life never experiencing it. I honestly think that she may be over estimating the dangers of domperidone, the safety profile seemed quite modest to me, but when she sees the list of side effects on google I think she is not understanding that those are generally extremely rare. I was hoping any of you ladies could share anecdotal experiences on your experience with domperidone, your experience with breast growth (was it good, bad, uncomfortable, etc), and also what are the BENEFITS you experence from wet nursing that are unique? I am going to try showing this to her and respectfully trying to hope that maybe a different perspective might help. Anyone is welcome to share their perspective, thanks <3