I'm sure this question has been asked to death, but I'd like some personal replies so I dont have to search for a particular question and see if the answers make sense to me. This way I can just get them in my inbox.

WF of this sub, may I ask how an AM should approach WF? I'm from CA and I never know how to gauge if a WF might be interested in an AM, and even if they were, how would I approach in a way that doesnt make it look like I'm just trying to get into your trousers and genuinely want a connection? I want to try tinder but I dont have any good pictures of myself or know how to take decent pics of myself. I'm not afraid of interaction, fairly confident, but I am cautious about the initial approach

Any and all advice is very much welcome. Thank you for taking the time to read my post!