I understand there’s an issue concerning race. I’ve got a friend that’s well playing to card too much. His wife left him and won’t let him see the kids, why cause I’m black. My landlord is bitchin cause I won’t mow the yard, cause I’m black. At the time I was completely on his side, until he acquired a trailer and parked it at a friends house, for free. This trailer was well the best way to describe it was a stripped out meth lab. After a long time parked at our friends place, she wanted it moved. She made countless attempts to contact him. Over and over he refused to answer her reply. She finally had to call the city to find out how to get rid of this. During this whole time I’m in contact with both of them.i kept telling him to contact her. He finally did and moved the trailer. Then he would call me and tell me bullshit about our mutual fried, that the reason he had to move it was because a white girl was going to take his spot. I finally told him to talk to her. Ok now fast forward a couple of years. He ends up renting a room from her and shortly there after moves across country. I now live in a trailer in her driveway and he scraps some money together to come back for estranged daughter’s graduation. What their arrangement was I don’t know. Then he starts asking me to feed him. Well a while back someone gave me a gift card to a grocery store in the amount of $250.00 so I finally told him to go and get some groceries and give me the card back. I got the card back a month later with $30 bucks on it. So now he’s made arrangements to work off what he owes for rent this month. Then whines he’s doing slave labor. Then he’s says that he’s going to his storage units to sell at flea market. Every single day he says that, and every single day he sits up in his room doing nothing. I’m at the point of telling him he’s got to do something, because he’s wasting his time. Time he can’t afford to waste cause when our friend gets back he’s gotta be gone or he’s out on the street. So would I be the a hole for calling him on his crap?