**I am looking for someone who is looking to date with marriage in mind! That means this is strictly a monogamous relationship only..**

Hello hello good morning, afternoon, evening, my name is Brian and I am looking for a little/ middle girl who wants to become my best friend, wife, and soulmate.

I am a CG but I do have a little/ middle side that comes out now and then I am ( 90% CG and 10% Little/middle).

**About me**

I like to think of myself as kind, generally positive, very protective, caring, and supportive of those who are close to me.

I always keep my promises. I can be a bit blunt/ straightforward. I hold myself to high standards in everything I do. I am also fairly introverted (until I get to know someone) and don't really leave the house unless I have to (l am a bit of a homebody).

I have never been in a relationship let alone a CLG/ ABDL relationship since I used to be more introverted than I am now and being CGL/ABDL has never made it easy to seek relationships with people for fear of having CLG/ABDL being used against me but it's time to change that!

What I do for work:

I am an IT technician currently working on level 2 help desk and am working on getting more certifications to get into a better job.

My looks:

I am 5 '3 and am fairly fit. I am constantly working on getting into better shape. I work out 5-7 days a week for about 30 min to an hour doing a mix of weight lifting and cardio. 

I weigh around 135ish pounds with short brown hair with a widow's peak, blueish eyes with glasses, and have a short beard( sometimes I shave it off, and 8/10 times I regret it). I try to keep everything below the neck shaved as often as my skin will let me.  

Likes/ Hobbies: 

Video games, photography, guns, exercising, cooking, and tinkering with technology/ DIY stuff. I want to get back into drawing/ 3D modeling/ Animation). 

Music I like: Jpop, Rock/metal, classical, EDM, eurobeat and music box

ABDL/ Kink stuff:

I am very open to exploring new kinks. My main kinks are omorashi, very light humiliation, ABDL, CGL/ddlg, toys, and a few others.

I would like to try to become a bed wetter and maybe go 24/7 with wearing.

CGL:

I am a soft daddy/ CG as I want to give you lots of love, and emotional/ mental support, take care of you/ check on you, and give you advice/ guidance when you feel lost or upset. I want to be a guiding light you can always depend on!

I recently started posting some of my fantasies and things I would like to do involving CLG/ ABDL on my Twitter and Bluesky @ JaidenCg if you are curious to see if we have overlapping fantasies/ goals in CLG / ABDL.

As for being a Switch:

I also have a bit of a little/ middle side. It's very much non-verbal, clingy, low-maintenance, and shy/ timid. I just want to have most choices made for me, not having to worry about anything like if I need changed, being held/ cuddled, and being told Im doing a good job,  

**About you**

You like/ want to be held/cuddled. I can be a bit clingy, physical touch is part of my love language, and I want to hold and cuddle with you. 

You want to have a few kids at some point. I would like to have a few.

Hold traditional values / Christian values. I guess this is a bit of an odd thing or at least it feels that way in the community. I had my edgy atheist years believe me, but recently I find myself slowly coming back to God and realizing how important of a role those values and experiences played in my childhood/ upbringing.

It's also important to me that you have something that you are passionate about that is not ABDL/ little/ middle related (it doesn't matter what it is). I think it's important to have something that isn't tied to a kink.

Ideally, you have a career/ job that you want to excel in (how much you make is not important). A hard day's work makes the reward of coming home to relax and be with each other much more fun and enjoyable!

You are probably relatively fit or at least wanting/ willing to work on it. You dont need to be super in shape or anything just being a wealthy weight and eating a healthy diet is good enough. That being said it would be great to work out together or go hiking. Active littles are healthy littles, and healthy littles are happy littles and want you to be healthy and happy!

Having some overlapping hobbies is a plus but isn't a requirement! It's nice to share interests and hobbies but also having your own space is important too! I would love to listen to you talk about your interests!

I need you to be ok with guns being around. I enjoy guns and other tactical military gear. I don't expect you to go shooting or involve yourself with them if you don't want to but you need to be ok with them being around. They let me keep the evils in this world away from you! 

It's been a dream of mine to one day move out to a rural part of the country/ state preferably in the mountains, and live somewhat off the grid. Keeping modern amenities close like good internet, able to get things shipped to the house while having stores that are not super far away, that kind of stuff. 

If you think we are a match, send me a message with a 💕 to show me you read this massive wall of text and tell me something about you like a goal (short or long term) you have or a dream that you have!