We are an awesome community, but I often feel like some of the members of this community are letting us down by creeping on medical forums and Facebook pages.

I have a legitimate reason to frequent such forums as I’m medically incontinent but it’s SO OBVIOUS when an ABDL is posting under the guise as somebody who is incontinent and is obviously trying to lure people in to their fantasy and harvest fap material.

I cringe so hard when I see someone trying to lure non-ABDL and genuinely incontinent people into conversation and outright asking about their habits with having accidents and using incontinence pads.

Please think before you post and please be respectful - we have a tough enough time being known and accepted and this does nothing to help us.